Monday. 12.9.13 04:08 am
So its one of those nights where I cannot sleep and have nowhere to rant. Thank goodness for nutang and you people who listen. Well, read. Its been a long time since ive posted. Most of you may remember that I usually post uere when I have relationship problems. So its been a long time since ive had a fight with my boyfriend. Its been very distressing recently for both him and I. I'm very tired, and generally just extremely upset that he cant see that I'm trying really hard to listen and appreciate what he's doing. I think we might have had 4 fights in the span of 2 weeks. He obviously feels its all my fault and that I'm whinging. It doesnt help that he's the type to avoid issues and not sort it out, because we fight about the same things again and he'll try to avoid it again. Back at square one. Could someone teach me what to do? I hate fighting. I always end up in tears.
meow meow. how r u?
advise from me is... if all u do is fight... have u thought of going separate ways?
if a couple have to avoid certain topic in a relationship, it is hard to communicate.
i come from an unhappy family and so that is said from my experience. » renaye
on 2013-12-12 06:28:30
My boyfriend and I used to fight aaaaallllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the time. I just ended up talking things through bit by bit calmly and worked things through. Just go at it calmly. » jabberwock
on 2014-01-01 02:20:56
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