different expectations between couples
Wednesday. 11.12.08 6:37 pm
do you ever feel that they expect you to not do some things, however they go and do it themselves? as a matter of fact, they dont even really realise that they're doing it at all. then the shit part - you find it unfair but you dont want to confront them with it because you feel that it'd indicate that you're whinging or provoking an arguement?
its happened to me too many times. i suppose ive confronted him a couple of times about things, but there are just too many and if i were to bring it all up, i reckon even i'd be annoyed at myself!
how do you really deal with the situation?
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i honestly think you did the right thing by bringin it up. being in a relationship also include growin together and learnin from one another besides all the lovey dovey stuff. both parties gotta be mature enough to be able to take criticism/ feedback constructively.
mayb to avoid the annoyance that u mentioned , wht u can do it perhaps bring it up instantly when such thing happen n it will lessen the things you gotta swallow n bottle up. its all bout knowin the right words to use :)
ive been through my share of such shit n my ex was a "runner" meanin he jst avoid the topic/prob, hopin it will be solved by itself. n im the confrontational type so u'd image what kinda arguement we would be in.
i think wht will be good is to be able to talk to ur partner bout things like this cuz most often is the small things that will accumulate n at the end of the day it will jst erupts like a volcano
» AlexisNg on 2008-11-12 04:42:51
u're most welcome.
am jst tryin to give u a different perspective of this cuz ive been through it myself n it sucks big time n mayb u can do better than i did previously.
am sure things will get better once u set ur mind in workin things out. its not worth it to end a relationship due to the difference.
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